There are many elements that must come together to enable you to be the best you on cam. I’m here to enlighten you and help you make it happen!
Cam modelling is one of those professions where it’s success is dependent on the mindset of the individual.
My job as Cam Model Mentor often involves the soul searching of others to help them identify what’s up.
I’m always happy to share my advice and empathy. The adult entertainment industry is a difficult industry to work in and I’m on your side all the way!
As a like-minded female here I know first hand there are always barriers to overcome physically, emotionally and psychologically when you work on cam.
Ticking along on all those elements week after week requires continual self-management.
Many models find their mood elevator is up and down, or they feel confident one day and no so the next. Other models are fire for a while then things will suddenly fizzle and they lose their mojo. All of this is normal and part and parcel of being human!
Many factors affect the mood and ability to be the best you on cam. There are always things going on in the personal life that can affect how positive the mindset is for actually getting online and putting the time in.
All of these things are completely normal and you’re not alone. I am not shy to tell you I have had many ups and downs in all my years of camming.
Even times I’ve had to take a few weeks or months out to reset. So never feel bad for bailing out for a while and focussing on YOU.
If you’re feeling lost, demotivated, burnt out or just needing some motivation to fire up your mojo; follow these tips to help you get on track.
You will choose your day to start being the best you on cam! Make it a promise to yourself to level up and be the best you on cam, and see it through.
BE THE BEST YOU
DAY - Decide which day you will start working on yourself to be the best you on cam. If you choose the day allows you complete control of your schedule, it’s all on your terms.
AFFIRM - Tell yourself you will wake up that day and make it day the best day of your life. Affirm that out loud, write it down, mark it in the diary.
Plan your "best you" start day for when you're feeling well. Avoid days where you’re premenstrual, on period, or hungover or recovering from illness.
REST - Schedule in an early night the night before your "best you" start day in order to sleep sufficiently and feel rested.
RISE - Wake up on the day and smile, do some stretches in bed, be mindful. Tell yourself you feel great! Today is going to be your best ever day!
EAT - Have a nice breakfast, ideally something healthy. Fruit, eggs, yoghurt, a non-sugared cereal, whatever you enjoy. Get some vitamin-C into your body as this ie very important. I recommend fresh fruit juice, berries or tomatoes.
DRESS - Wrap up dependent on the climate to go outside and move around in the fresh air. Walk the dog if you have one, drop of the kids at their daycare/school if you have them, and go for a walk afterwards.
Just 30 minutes a day of light exercise outdoors is beneficial to promote a positive mindset and a feeling of overall wellbeing.
Alternatively, you may like to go to the gym or do another form or workout that makes you feel fabulous. We are all different and what suits one model may not suit another. Do what you love and make it part of your "best you" routine!
AFFIRM - Keep affirming to yourself that today is the start of your "best you" days as a cam model, and that you feel positive and focussed. Continually reaffirming this is good programming for the mindset to keep you on track. You can affirm and reaffirm by writing down something meaningful like: "today I am going to be the best me on cam." Write it several times over and/or repeat it out loud.
CREATE - Think through some ideas of what you would enjoy doing on cam on your first "best you" day. Have a look through your outfits and toys, feel excited about getting ready, creating your vibe on cam and think about all your great potential. You’re going to be the best you on cam, and kill it today!
POSITIVE VIBE - Keep working on this. Talk kindly to yourself and remind yourself that you’re beautiful and awesome. Be excited about working on cam and being the best you! There will be many tipping members looking forward to seeing you!
MUSIC - Put on some uplifting music and get ready! Put on your sexiest outfit that you'll feel your best self wearing. Remind yourself you’re an absolute stunner and you’re about to smash it on cam!
Today is the best day to be the best you and your amazing vibe will draw in the supportive fans! You will have a tonne of fun and gain a heap of new tipping admirers with your appealing persona!
SING - Sing along, chat to your best self while you get dressed and do your makeup. It might sound crazy but it really helps get into the right vibe to be the best you on cam!
TAKE YOUR TIME - Getting ready takes as long as it takes so please don’t feel under pressure. These things are best done in an environment where you feel relaxed and encouraged without it all being a chore.
Why not light some scented candles, rearrange your room, get some nibbles or something nice to drink? Make feel like getting ready for a nice day or night out and you will enjoy the process of becoming the best you on cam!
EXTRA TIME - Need extra time to do your nails, or pop a quick call to a friend? No worries! Do what you need to do. You need to feel 100% prepared and happy that all the little jobs are out of the way. This helps declutter the mind.
ADMIRE - Look in the mirror and smile at your reflection. What a beauty! You look your absolute best, and that is going to come across online. Your fans will appreciate the effort you’ve gone to and you’ll get compliments. These boost your confidence and make you feel even more like your best you on cam!
PREPARE YOUR CAM - Log on and set up your shows, tip features and anything else you would like to promote. Connect any interactive toys and put any props and things like sex toys within reach.
SLAY! - Now you’re in the best possible mindset to slay - happy, energised, with good energy. You about to have the most incredible session being the best you on cam. What a buzz!
START - Take your stage and say hi to your crowd! They’re delighted to see you and keen to help you be the best you on cam by supporting your show. Be excited to see them too, and appreciative when they show the love and tip.
CONNECT - Greet your audience with your lovely smile, tell them you’ve missed them. Let them know about the shows you’ve planned and tell them what they have to look forward to.
I’m so proud of you for getting to this stage! You can truly be the best you on cam, today and every other day you work on cam. Focus on having fun and showing off the best you, and the money will come!
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